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I have been trying to find a clear definition of home .   It is one of those words like love or menopause that is hard to put your finger on.   What is a home?   I knew exactly where home was when I was a kid.   Home was anyplace my mother was.   If mom was there, things were good and I was home. Then, like everything else, home evolved.   I became a mother and home was a place I created for my children. I took great pride in making it very clear where their home was.   I tried to be there for them.   I cooked and cleaned and had friends and family over for life’s big events: holidays, birthdays.   I collected things: my mother’s paintings, my father’s piano, artwork and gifts the children had given me.   I planted a garden, got a trampoline and put up a tire swing.    As the children got older my idea of home evolved again.    Home needed to move closer to where our life was.   That is where thin...