Sunday

Lucy and her little grandson 
I am so lucky to see Mexico before it changes… everything changes so quickly.  Puerto Vallarta is full of Baby Boomers who would struggle to retire at home.  The cost of living is just too high.  But here, in Mexico, a condo with a view of the ocean is the norm.  And as people from Canada and The US move here in droves, the local economy improves and more condos go up and the infra structure improves.. and.. things change. 

PV is no longer a ‘sleepy little fishing village’..

San Sabastian from the first sister's house on the hill
The apartment where I am staying is a converted little shop.  The owners decided that instead of being tied to a shop all day, where very little money is made, they could get regular income from a couple of suites.  They are small.. but new… and new to the family as well.  They are excited about their new enterprise.  They have one foot in this new Vallarta, but still another foot in their roots.  And their roots are in the mountains behind the city.  And they invited me ‘home’ one day to meet mama and papa. 

My place is the dream of ‘Lucy’.. her daughter Dani does the business end of things, advertising, finances.. but this is Lucy’s baby.  She doesn’t speak much English, although she certainly seems to understand me just fine.  And she doesn’t drive, but her son does.  So we all  (her son, his wife and young son, her husband and a couple of friends) hopped into their new suburban and headed out. 

The outdoor kitchen
Looking at the house from the kitchen
It is about a two hour drive to San Sebastian, where Lucy has two sisters.  While the town itself is quite touristy, we skipped that part, parked at the bottom of a hill, and walked a few blocks up the mountain.  The older sister’s place was our first stop.  It seemed as though they had carved their little place right out of the dirt.  The house was adobe, with no cement, just mud and water bricks.  They had a large room where the family slept and an outdoor kitchen.  Everything has been made by hand.  I thought it would be hard to get the groceries to such a place, but then realized there wouldn’t be many.. this place was very self sufficient. 

The second sister lived even further up the mountain.  This place was not so neat and clean.. this sister not so self sufficient, and I suspect, not as content as the older one.   Life here, like everywhere else, is what you make it I guess.  But at this time, in this place.. well, I imagine it would be very hard not to notice the huge gap between what is on television and what is outside your door. 

We visited a bit, toured town, and then headed off to see mama in Los Pinas, a bit of nail biter away. 


Lucy’s mom reminded me so much of grandma Bower.  Lucy showed off how she made tortillas in her mom’s kitchen… a long way off from her gas stove in PV.  Mama had made beans and rice..  The chickens ran about the yard with their chicks..  
some of the grandsons worked on a truck.. We ended the day with a trip to the graveyard to check on some old family members..
I have lived in Outback Australia for a number of years.  I have seen poverty.  But grandma’s place wasn’t poor.. it was a glimpse into life how it used to be.  And it used to be very much like it was in Canada.. Organized, self sufficient… People had to be strong to be happy. 


 





It makes me sad that many people don’t get to see into this world.  We think that if you don’t have money you can’t be happy.  But you can.. you just have to know what you want, and do that. 

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